Thursday, March 25, 2010

The Real World: So Real or So Not?

If you've ever seen the Real World you've probably just thought it's just another reality show or there is way too much drama to ever get into something like that. For me it's always been interesting to watch the show if there is a male out gay character on the show. Some seasons have had their "token gay" and others have not. More recently they've had a wider spectrum of sexual orientation including this season with two bisexuals one male and one female. Mike is the male bisexual that on the show eventually ends up madly in love with his ex-boyfriend. I don't know if anything outside the show became real or stayed as it was shown but I thought the story was really moving.

MTV's Real World DC ep. 13

One thing that is at least entertaining to watch is when they have real life GLBTQQ situations happening. For instance in this episode Mike finds that he is able to show the feeling of love with his ex. The major kind of situation afterwards is what I really like that MTV decided to show and that was how parents accept their children when they find out they are gay. It apparently took Mike's mom a while but Mike's boyfriend's parents didn't take it well at all. This is a frequent subject of film where LGBT youth are constantly terrified what their parents might think if they ever found them to be who they are. In some ways it comes out good and some ways it comes out bad. By putting this on TV it gives youth watching it an idea of what may come up to them when they have children some day.

A lot of negativity is usually shot at gays especially now with gay marriage debates happening all over America. In a way this isn't really about gay's adopting kids and having them turn gay. This is the possibility that straight parents will have gay kids and how it should be dealt with. LGBT or whatever your child is still your child. They might love someone of the same sex but it's nothing to be ashamed of.

There's lots of information to go find out if you think your son or daughter might be LGBT. Try finding information from organizations like GLSEN, PFLAG, or HRC. Information is out there on LGBT youth suicide where the rate is much higher than that of their straight counterparts. That's where the Trevor Project steps in. We are who we are and it's not a choice!

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